Tuesday, December 9, 2008

别管人家说

This picture is taken in a HDB.It was a art piece exhibit at the HDB hall.

你是否也把太多的时间,用于努力搏取别人的认同,或是对于那些不认同的话耿耿于怀?别人的评价毕竟只是“别人”的看法而已,不应与自我的价值相混,如果你把别人的想法看得比自己重要,那么你不就成了受人支配的奴隶。

我们时常会受旁边人所说的话影响,有时也会成为话题的主角。但是我们自己有没有想过和分析这些话的真与假呢?

4 comments:

Sherrie said...

Anthony

不管别人怎么说,做人最重要就是要对得起自己的良心,不要让外人的闲言闲语而影响自己。既然是经过了三思后想而做出了决定也就不要再后悔。

如果对被人的闲言闲语耿耿于怀,到后来最痛苦的还是自己。不是吗?

谢谢

Anthony said...

雪丽,

有些人就是这样,常把别人的闲言闲语放在心上。搞得自己疑心疑鬼,坦克不安。

别人说的垃圾应该丢掉,可不要一直背在身上。

Kat said...

Hi Anthony,

I love that picture which you've taken, I didn't know HDB would have such a pic... thanks for sharing with us...

Anthony said...

Kat,

This is one of the exibit I have taken, as the others due to spot light shine on the art. I cannot take the others art pieces....they are also very nice, showing difference HDB building.

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