This photo was taken at a road cross Junction. A Plant just come out from from the road.But don't know when it will chop off ???
My Feeling,
Actual this world is a big classroom, you have to learn whatever you think in order to survive.
Like stress control, humans relationship etc.
Everyday there are new things to learns, if you can't catch up.
You will be left behind,especially in the present world.
Those who not strong enough will gone mad, sick or totally give up his/her life.
As we can see in the news everyday young and old jumping down from high rise building.
We can learn from the plant above, no matter how hard is the rock. We must pull through.
Hope this will not happen around my dear relatives and friends.
Lastly Happy weekend.
7 comments:
Anthony,
finally i can leave comment le. Pass few posts i tried to, but blogger just shut off by itself.
Ya, nowadays people are all very stressed and competitive. Even 孩子都没了童真了，很悲哀咯。
xueli,
Now it seem that stress is around us everyday, it depend on how we de-stress and handle stress.
Some even stress until need to see mental doctor.
Hope that this will not happen to us...hahaha “一笑解千愁”
对对对，这些植物的求生力很强，我也经常看到这类植物，它们能够在很艰熬的情况下生存，我们人类要向他们多多学习。
Kate,
Right. We always can learn somethings from our everyday life...hahaha
Hi Anthony, is not only stress or is due to stress that now it seems that ppl are becoming more ruthless or heartless.
They are concern about themselves only and think of themselves. But they expect others to be good to them.
When they did wrong, they expect others to forgive and even think they are not in the wrong or worst to shift blames on others.
There are more and more such ppl and even children are like that. The value of friendships, kinships are diminishing!!! Honesty, loyalty,etc are no longer valid in today world as you can see that almost everyone is telling lies for ownself interest to the extent of hurting others.But they always have "good reasons" for telling lies or habit of telling lies (unknowingly)!
We always say if you want others to treat you well, it should start from ownself. However, now is not the case anymore! ppl won't because of selfish and "OVER self protection" instead will take advantage of the goodness of the "giver" and even hurting.
All the above is what I experience and also saw how ppl behaving and reacting in this society. Of course there are "good" examples but don't you agree is getting lesser? To be optimistic is actually self deceiving in this aspect. Even "famous good" ppl who supposed to be "good" and doing "bad" actions. They are good at "wearing mask" to make ppl think that they are "good" ppl,but when get to see the true face, it can be a total reversal of what you think and see and that may be too late when hurts are being done!
To be good to others and think for others is rather cruel to ownself!
Is such tough to be optimistic what happening around us is so.
Mark
Is easy to say must be strong blah blah blah. We always will say must treat our family, friends well when something unfortunate happen. BUT WE WILL FORGET VERY FAST!
I believe that if there are JUST ONE person who there to give support and encourage in daily life to those who feeling down and they won't commit suicide. I think those who want to commit suicide or tendency of suicide will always seek help or support and is when they can't get any form of support be it someone to listen to them or to talk to them or worst get scolding instead, that's why in the end .... :(
Ppl are too busy and concern about ownself that they have no patient and compassion for others problems. They are quick to finger pointing but very slow or don't realise they are the same actually!
Agree with xueli that Even 孩子都没了童真了，很悲哀咯。 and I think the most crucial point is the adults. Children learn from the adults!!! Now, ppl who are clever and wise are those who knows how to protect themselves, how to tell lies without feeling guilty at all, how to gain own interest, only concern about ownself...I think many will disagree but if think and observe, is a fact!If we are really honest enough and seek inside, will be able to see that We always say and act different and tends to find excuses. We are good at lecturing others.
Those who are not strong or I would say is those who unable to accept and unable to be "those type of ppl" are ppl who still can be "saved" because they are the one who will not be able to do "bad".
Mark
Mark,
Welcome to my blog to share your views.
comments 1,
I agree with your point, now ppls is getting "OVER self protection".
Even the parents are teaching their kids to protect themselves first. I think is the small country we are in, too challenging and too fast pace.
comments 2,
I think some of those who commit suicide,don't know where to seek help and they dare not to bring down“爱面子”to talk to others ppl.
especially strangers.
I also agree this point "孩子都没了童真了，很悲哀咯"。That why many migrate to NZ or Aust because the schools in here is too challenging.
And children here always have to keep on competing with each others in schools. I think most of the kids don't like this,but the pressure coming from parents is too greats.
Lastly.
Hope we never have to ware a mask in our daily life.
Wish you have a Happy Holidays.
Thanks for sharing.
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