萧邦有一次去朋友家吃饭,席间宾客众多,女主人也只是意兴阑珊地招呼着客人,
对于萧邦更是爱理不理,令他十分不悦.
尤其最让他难以忍受的是,女主人竟在他用餐用到一半的时候,
突然要他演奏一曲以娱嘉宾.
在众宾客纷纷鼓掌之下,萧邦只得走向钢琴.
"快啊!快一点!" 女主人频频催促道."别扫了大家的兴啊!"
显然一点儿也不尊重这一代大师.
萧邦把不满腔怒火隐忍下来,坐在钢琴前弹奏起来;
正当曲子的演奏逐进入高潮的时候,他却突然停了下来.
"到这儿就结束了吗?"女主人非常惊讶.
"还没结束." 萧邦摇摇头.
"那为什么弹到一半就不弹了?"
"我这顿饭也只吃到一半呀!"
女主人立刻低下头来,满面羞愧,不知如何是好.
你对别人所做的,其实也是给自己的.
如果你对别人关心,别人也会关心你;
你对别人付出,别人也会对你相对的付出;
如果你能将心比心,别人也以同理心来对你.
反之,如果你对人冷漠,别人也会回以冷漠;
如果你对人摆出一副臭脸,别人也不会给你好脸色;
如果你吝于对别人付出,那么,别人也将吝于给你回报.
From this articles its tell me to respect others, then they will also respect you back.
6 comments:
hi Anthony,
请教你一个问题，不知道为什么有些animated 的图片上载到我的blog 时它就不能动了，有哪些setting需要调整的吗？谢谢。
Anthony
yalor, if one wants ppl to respect them, they must first respect themselves and respect others.
Kate Tan;
Sometime I also face this problems, maybe you can ask my teacher Richard 老师。He is more experts then me...我也是半桶水。。。哈哈哈
Xueli;
Yalor,but some ppl we really cannot be respect...especially those with their eyes growing on top of their head...hahaha
Hi Anthony, actually all these type of phrases are very meaningful and aspiring but now to me, after experiencing many numerous hurts, I think all that depends on what type of ppl, some ppl or many ppl are those who will take advantage and bully or even hurt you if you respect, treat them good, be their scapegoat,etc...
in the past, i always believe "if you are good to ppl, ppl will be gd to you", "ji2 suo2 bu4 yu4, wu4 shi1 yu2 ren2", "chi1 kui1 jiu4 shi4 fu2", "yi3 de2 bao4 yuan4", etc, but because now it seems that all that are "nonsense" in today world!! I understand why in the past, my best friend always disagree with me when i said all these "principle". so now i am starting to "rebel" and think more for myself (wu2 si1 is basically inexistence in this world, except in parents and children; even that kind of relationship may not exist for all but that is the only true relationship that i trust and believe now).
if i say my "change" is because of the ppl around me, etc, some will say "noone can change your, except yourself. noone can hurt you except yourself"...again, all these are "ridiculous" or "ideal"... i "resist that change" and "stick by and aim to be like those ideal principle/belief" but after so many years of hurtful experiences, i think all that cannot be applied to today world of people...
i change but still guided by basic principle of not hurting ppl,but i won't be so "stupid" and keep believe that all ppl are good,etc...ppl are treating my "good" as being "stupid (one of them told me this.... and a few did tell me that i need to "protect" and "stand up" for myself but that is just not me...but now, i think i unable to take it/suppress/let go anymore...)
sorry, wrote too much because i like reading your blog and maybe because just being hurt , so that spring off my feeling....
Ni
Ni;
No problems.
Getting hurt is problems,but main things is how to recover back and get well.
life have different ways,it always depend on our heart and mind which way we want to go.Sometime we choose the right way, sometime don't...
You can anytime leave a note to me...we can share our experience with each others...hahaha don't close your heart to those who cares about you.
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