人生无常,人命只在呼吸,一秒间过不了关,生命就结束了.
所以,要好好把握每一分每一秒.
Life is impermanent. It exists in the space of breath. Life ends when the breathing stops. We must cherish every moment we have.
Wednesday, January 2, 2008
快乐不假求于人(都是你的错 ~ 何权峰著)
当别人的言语,行为不顺你心,不合你意, 你便感觉悲伤,愤恨难当? 为什么要让别人来影响自己的情绪? Don't let others people words spoil your moods...hahaha be ourself.
Hi Anthony, Happy New Year. Well said but I don't quite agree because when one is totally unaffected, the reasons are either don't care about the person so any words or action by the person will not affected one. Anoterh reason do you think one can remain unaffected at all if is someone one care and put in feeling? Of course I would think is to encourage one to be happy or not to feel hatred but if is someone eg family, bf/gf, close friends, is really very hard unless one don't feel anything at all towards them. agree? I don't understand how not to be affected at all for what closed ones done or said. just what i feel personally.
Recently, I've learnt to put a deaf ears to others' gossips/hurting words etc. So long we are doing what we think has no harm to ourselves and others, we should not bother what others are going to say. The more you are not bothered, the more those people will not be able to find faults with you, & they had to retreat, so in the end i am the one who win the battle! hahaha
8 comments:
Anthony,
有句话说得很好，那就是“人家气我，我不气，若是气他，中他计。不过说是容易，做起来可难哟！
Hi Anthony, Happy New
Year. Well said but I don't quite agree because when one is totally unaffected, the reasons are either don't care about the person so any words or action by the person will not affected one. Anoterh reason do you think one can remain unaffected at all if is someone one care and put in feeling? Of course I would think is to encourage one to be happy or not to feel hatred but if is someone eg family, bf/gf, close friends, is really very hard unless one don't feel anything at all towards them. agree? I don't understand how not to be affected at all for what closed ones done or said. just what i feel personally.
Wei
Eileen;
I think before we get angry, we must know why we get angry...
Wei;
Happy New Year!
We must know where is the root of trouble,if we get to know this. It more easy for us to control...right...hahaha
Anthony
Recently, I've learnt to put a deaf ears to others' gossips/hurting words etc. So long we are doing what we think has no harm to ourselves and others, we should not bother what others are going to say. The more you are not bothered, the more those people will not be able to find faults with you, & they had to retreat, so in the end i am the one who win the battle! hahaha
Hi Anthony
Nice meeting u yesterday at Aunty Irene house...
Xueli;
Sometime must learn how to on and off whatever we hear...hahaha
SIS;
Nice meeting u too...
Anthony
right oso!
ON for praises,,,IN right and OUT left for nonsense..heehee
Xueli;
You are right,so that our brain don't catch so much rubbish...hahaha
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